5 things to do solo this weekend

Doing stuff solo shouldn’t be something you're scared of. But as a millennial I feel like its something we all feel a little bit weird about doing. There is nothing wrong with being on your own or choosing not to go out with your friends at the weekend! I think that we should take a few hours or a whole day at least once a week to ourselves to refresh, recharge and spend some time getting to know yourself better. Being independent and learning to love being with your own company will help you tenfold so here are 5 things to do solo this weekend.

Netflix is Life
Spending an entire weekend binge watching my TV shows is one of my favourite things on solo weekends. Load up with snacks and put on your cosiest PJ’s and take up residence in front of your laptop. Some of my favourite shows at the moment are Penny Dreadful and Vikings. If you have any recommendations of series to binge watch then suggest them in the comments!

Take Hike
When I was in America I realised how refreshing and mind cleansing going on a hike can be. Experiencing nature can really calm the mind and the soul and make you feel at peace with the world around you. A short 1-2 hour hike around a local wood, park or if you’re more adventurous then attempt a mountain climb! Feel the wind in your hair and the birds chirping around!

Solo Shop 
I personally love shopping with my friends  but I do also love going on my own. When Im alone I can take as much time as I like trying on things and experimenting with my look without having a friend comment on things. Hurray to being under no pressure and no judgemental friends side eyes!

Day Tripping
Hop on a train and take a visit to the coast or to a brand new city you’ve never been to before. The beauty of travelling solo it means you can go wherever you want, do whatever you want and in your own time! Stay overnight in a fancy hotel and pretend your in Gossip Girl!

Read Something Inspirational
Curl up under a duvet on your couch with and get fully engrossed in a good book. Try a motivational book to inspire and motivate you to try something new in life. Or maybe a recipe books to get you trying some new foods next week. Or even a YA novel, which are still great reads even in your mid twenties!

There are so many things I could add to this list and I may do another in the future if you guys want more things to do on your own! If you have any ideas of things others can do on their own this weekend then do leave them in the comments as I would love to know!


  1. All the things you mentioned here are sounding great! Wish you a wonderful weekend <3
    xx Rena

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  2. They sound great. I personally can never believe why people are scared of doing things on their own: I love spending time with myself. Hehe. X

  3. Love this post! I, for one, definitely feel that I need to go out and start doing things by myself rather than just waiting for my friends to be free!

    Emily xo | http://rosesandramblings1.blogspot.co.uk

  4. Aha I've ended up spending the last week solo for most of it, just taking little adventures. It's been great and kind of what I needed after a week of 24/7 with friends <3

    The Quirky Queer

  5. Shopping is one of my favourite things to do solo - I actually hate clothes shopping with other people!

    Morag x

  6. Haha Netflix is definitely life. Loved this post!

  7. I used to be very afraid to do things on my own, but as I grew older I actually really like it. It makes me feel relaxed and peaceful :) Lovely post!

    Valérie | Moonlit Stories

  8. Great post! I would love to be able to go and shop on my own but anxiety gets the better of me x
    Emma | Emmys Beauty Cave

  9. Love this post, I defo feel as I get a bit older I am more comfortable doing things by myself and enjoy my own company a bit more :)


  10. This is inspiring me to bite the bullet and go to the cinema solo. xx

  11. I love going shopping on my own sometimes, it's so nice to wander around at your own pace x


  12. These ideas are great, I love going to town with friends but when you're alone there's so much more time to thing etc.

    Olivia // My Clueless Mind

  13. I love walks on my own and just taking myself off for a while - it really helps clear your mind!

    Lauren x
    Britton Loves | Lifestyle Food Beauty

  14. Love the ideas :) I am having a sick day today so I am updating my blog, and will curl up with a book later, and hopefully feel better tomorrow so I can go shopping :) Will definitely binge watch Netflix as well. Lovely photos Lily

  15. Great ideas Lily!!


  16. Solo shopping is one of my favourite things to do, it's far more peaceful!
    Jodie xo // Jodie Loue

  17. I am one of those people that can't stand the thought of doing anything alone in fear of judgement, even though I know really no-one is going to be thinking badly of me for being alone. I need a day one day where I can sit and do absolutely nothing but binge watch a tv show, I still need to see OITNB and GoT! I like the idea of taking a hike or something though, walking and then finding a place to lose yourself in a book or just take in the place around you and I'd love to explore more so maybe I will find the courage to take a trip to a new place one day

  18. I need to start learning to do things solo, frequently everyone is busy. The shopping I've done alone & enjoy it just as much with friends. Thanks for the ideas, great post! Please do more :)

    Jadie | www.jadiespillett.com

  19. What a great post! I always use the excuse 'I have no one to go with', I need to stop and appreciate the time I spend by myself. I especially love the daytrip idea.
    Caitie x

  20. i love having days off to myself, such a great post Lily!

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  21. I love a good hike, almost just as much as I like a good Netflix marathon! Ha!

    - Elodie x

  22. Great ideas, I'll probably be on Netflix all weekend!

    Anika | www.anikamay.co.uk

  23. at uni recently, one of my seminars was delayed by two hours. it wasn't worth me going home, so instead i wandered around Cambridge by myself. at first i hated it - i felt like everyone was looking at me, but i ended up in a cute little bookshop/cafe with a cup of tea and a book! i ended up really enjoying myself!

    your ideas are lovely. and such pretty photos!

    Elena | Itchy Bones

  24. Great post, I love to solo shop, I agree no judgemental comments on what your buying. Plus no one is there to shop you from splurging the cash or put you off buying that product! :)
    Sonam - http://fashtasticflare.blogspot.co.uk/

  25. When it's just me on the weekend, I love to make detox days and go to the park. I feel so relaxed, when I can have just me time!
    Fashion Blog | Instagram

  26. Yes! love me some alone time


  27. This is so so inspiring! :)


  28. love doing things on my own at times too good to just be in your own thoughts and have times to your self love a good hike


  29. Love solo shopping on my own ;) it just feels better and you can take forever looking at everything ha,ha! x

    Jenny | Krystel Couture

  30. Love this post, especially as sometimes I really just enjoying spending some time shopping on my own!
    So much to do in London, just some things you need to do with friends/boyfriend too!
    Sam xx


  31. Ahh I wish I could do the single day travelling it sounds so fun!


  32. All of these ideas are excellent! I especially love the idea of taking a day trip to a new city on your own. I think spending time by one's self is so refreshing and regenerating. I love taking time to pamper myself and my soul. Thank you for all of the wonderful ideas!

    The What's In Between

  33. I really like solo shopping haha, I'm indecisive as heck when it comes to shopping, so I'd rather not have someone with me annoyed!

    becky | star violet

  34. Netflix is basically my life! As sad as it sounds I love doing things by myself...it means I can do stuff when and where I want to!


  35. I love to go to the fleamarket alone :D! ♥ http://cosmicconfession.blogspot.de/

  36. I love doing things by myself, I like to take my time and do/watch/eat what I want - that might make me a bit selfish sounding though haha! I've even been the cinema a few times alone where I've just fancied seeing a film on a whim and it was no where near as embarrassing as I thought it'd be x

    Josie’s Journal

  37. Love the list and the photos !


  38. I love shopping alone! I tend to skip past things or not look around when I'm with friends x

  39. This post was so inspiring! I will definitely be trying a few of those out! I need to step out of my comfort zone more :) x


  40. Great post Lily - love a bit f time to myself (:

  41. Great post Lily - love a bit f time to myself (:

  42. Day tripping sounds like a really great idea!


  43. This is such a great post and has made me realise I should really do more by myself. I usually get caught up in always going places with my boyfriend or friends, but it's quite nice to go out by yourself once in a while!

    Tessa at Bramble & Thorn

  44. I used to be terrified of doing things alone, especially shopping. I would feel like people were looking at me and feeling sorry that I didn't have anyone to go with. When I got past high school I stopped caring so much what people thought, I would look around when I was out by myself and realise how many people are doing the exact same thing!


  45. Are there any motivational reads you'd recommend? Been looking for one for a while but cannot find the right one.
    Lizzy | by Lizzy x

  46. I like the idea of this, taking a day trip to another city.
    I usually read when I'm having a solo time but I want to go out alone. I'd love to solo travel.


  47. Great ideas

  48. I always love the idea of shopping on my own but I always seem to end up just buying everything and then getting home only to realise I've bought things in the wrong size or just don't even like them anyway! x

    India Charlotte♥

  49. I'm so glad I'm not the only one that enjoys doing things solo! I live in London but don't have many friends here so often find myself going to visit and see things on my own. I quite enjoy it!

  50. Reading something inpirational is surely a good thing to read solo

  51. I love to shop alone, for the same exact reasons!! Wish I could go day tripping here where I live but unfortunately neighbouring cities are not so close by:(

    Great post!!

    Rachel x

  52. wonderful.
    Online reading is not my thing. But after reading your blog I am really pleased. I don’t know about other blogs but this I will definitely keep coming back to.

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